Patterns- something that all people possess that they don’t even recognize. This conversation will shed light on how patterns naturally happen through the course of life. Though they move us in routine, patterns help us cope and defend ourselves. However, some of them are not beneficial to us or our family in any way and needs to be tweaked. Here’s a list of the top 3 common patterns in families with addiction from Dr. Seth Kadish. Rewrite your life with a new set of pattern that truly makes you feel safe and secure.